feat(ui): update RelationshipFilter if only filterOptions are changed (#11985)

### What?
Extends trigger of a reload of the fields for RelationshipFilter to
include `filterOptions`.

### Why?
If you have two or more relationship fields that have a relation to the
same collection, the options of the filter will not update.

### How
By extending dependencies of `useEffect`

### Code setup:
```
{
    name: 'media',
    type: 'relationship',
    relationTo: 'media',
    filterOptions: () => {
      return {
        id: { in: ['67efaee24648d01dffceecf9'] },
      }
    }
  },
  {
    name: 'media2',
    type: 'relationship',
    relationTo: 'media',
    filterOptions: () => {
      return {
        id: { in: ['67efafb04648d01dffceed75'] },
      }
    }
  },
  ```
  
  ### Before:

https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/bdc5135b-3afa-48df-98fe-6a9153dd7710


  
  
 ### After:

https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/d71a7558-6413-4c97-9b0b-678cf3b011d0




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packages/ui/src/elements/WhereBuilder/Condition/Relationship/index.tsx

@@ -324,7 +324,7 @@ export const RelationshipFilter: React.FC<Props> = (props) => {
         }
       })
     }
-  }, [i18n, relationTo, debouncedSearch])
+  }, [i18n, relationTo, debouncedSearch, filterOptions])
 
   /**
    * Load any other options that might exist in the value that were not loaded already