feat: polymorphic join querying by fields that don't exist in every collection (#12648)

This PR makes it possible to do polymorphic join querying by fields that
don't exist in all collections specified in `field.collection`, for
example:
```
const result = await payload.find({
  collection: 'payload-folders',
  joins: {
    documentsAndFolders: {
      where: {
        and: [
          {
            relationTo: {
              in: ['folderPoly1', 'folderPoly2'],
            },
          },
          {
            folderPoly2Title: { // this field exists only in the folderPoly2 collection, before it'd throw a query error.
              equals: 'Poly 2 Title',
            },
          },
        ],
      },
    },
  },
})
```

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Co-authored-by: Jarrod Flesch <jarrodmflesch@gmail.com>

test/joins/config.ts

@@ -4,6 +4,8 @@ import path from 'path'
 import { buildConfigWithDefaults } from '../buildConfigWithDefaults.js'
 import { Categories } from './collections/Categories.js'
 import { CategoriesVersions } from './collections/CategoriesVersions.js'
+import { FolderPoly1 } from './collections/FolderPoly1.js'
+import { FolderPoly2 } from './collections/FolderPoly2.js'
 import { HiddenPosts } from './collections/HiddenPosts.js'
 import { Posts } from './collections/Posts.js'
 import { SelfJoins } from './collections/SelfJoins.js'
@@ -337,6 +339,8 @@ export default buildConfigWithDefaults({
         },
       ],
     },
+    FolderPoly1,
+    FolderPoly2,
   ],
   localization: {
     locales: [