### What?
`payload.db.updateOne` (and so `payload.db.upsert`) with drizzle
adapters used incoming `where` incorrectly and worked properly only
either if you passed `id` or some where query path required table joins
(like `where: { 'array.title'`) which is also the reason why `upsert`
_worked_ with user preferences specifically, because we need to join the
`preferences_rels` table to query by `user.relationTo` and `user.value`
Fixes https://github.com/payloadcms/payload/issues/9915
This was found here - https://github.com/payloadcms/payload/pull/9913,
the database KV adapter uses `upsert` with `where` by unique fields.
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