fix(db-postgres): allow to clear select fields with hasMany: true (#9464)

### What?
Previously, using Postgres, select fields with `hasMany: true` weren't
clearable.
Meaning, you couldn't pass an empty array:
```ts
const updatedDoc = await payload.update({
  id,
  collection: 'select-fields',
  data: {
    selectHasMany: [],
  },
})
```

### Why?
To achieve the same behavior with MongoDB.

### How?
Modifies logic in `packages/drizzle/src/upsertRow/index.ts` to include
empty arrays.

test/fields/int.spec.ts

@@ -521,6 +521,25 @@ describe('Fields', () => {
       expect(updatedDoc.selectHasMany).toEqual(['one', 'two'])
     })
 
+    it('should clear select hasMany field', async () => {
+      const { id } = await payload.create({
+        collection: 'select-fields',
+        data: {
+          selectHasMany: ['one', 'two'],
+        },
+      })
+
+      const updatedDoc = await payload.update({
+        id,
+        collection: 'select-fields',
+        data: {
+          selectHasMany: [],
+        },
+      })
+
+      expect(updatedDoc.selectHasMany).toHaveLength(0)
+    })
+
     it('should query hasMany in', async () => {
       const hit = await payload.create({
         collection: 'select-fields',