fix(ui): fixed many bugs in the WhereBuilder relationship select menu (#10553)

Following https://github.com/payloadcms/payload/pull/10551, I found and
fixed a handful more bugs:

- When writing to the input, the results that were already there were
not cleaned, causing incorrect results to appear.
- the scroll was causing an infinite loop that showed repeated elements
- optimization: only the required field is selected (not required)
- refs are set to the initial value to avoid a state where nothing can
be searched

test/admin/payload-types.ts

@@ -27,6 +27,7 @@ export interface Config {
     geo: Geo;
     'disable-duplicate': DisableDuplicate;
     'base-list-filters': BaseListFilter;
+    with300documents: With300Document;
     'payload-locked-documents': PayloadLockedDocument;
     'payload-preferences': PayloadPreference;
     'payload-migrations': PayloadMigration;
@@ -49,6 +50,7 @@ export interface Config {
     geo: GeoSelect<false> | GeoSelect<true>;
     'disable-duplicate': DisableDuplicateSelect<false> | DisableDuplicateSelect<true>;
     'base-list-filters': BaseListFiltersSelect<false> | BaseListFiltersSelect<true>;
+    with300documents: With300DocumentsSelect<false> | With300DocumentsSelect<true>;
     'payload-locked-documents': PayloadLockedDocumentsSelect<false> | PayloadLockedDocumentsSelect<true>;
     'payload-preferences': PayloadPreferencesSelect<false> | PayloadPreferencesSelect<true>;
     'payload-migrations': PayloadMigrationsSelect<false> | PayloadMigrationsSelect<true>;
@@ -374,6 +376,17 @@ export interface BaseListFilter {
   updatedAt: string;
   createdAt: string;
 }
+/**
+ * This interface was referenced by `Config`'s JSON-Schema
+ * via the `definition` "with300documents".
+ */
+export interface With300Document {
+  id: string;
+  text?: string | null;
+  selfRelation?: (string | null) | With300Document;
+  updatedAt: string;
+  createdAt: string;
+}
 /**
  * This interface was referenced by `Config`'s JSON-Schema
  * via the `definition` "payload-locked-documents".
@@ -444,6 +457,10 @@ export interface PayloadLockedDocument {
     | ({
         relationTo: 'base-list-filters';
         value: string | BaseListFilter;
+      } | null)
+    | ({
+        relationTo: 'with300documents';
+        value: string | With300Document;
       } | null);
   globalSlug?: string | null;
   user: {
@@ -734,6 +751,16 @@ export interface BaseListFiltersSelect<T extends boolean = true> {
   updatedAt?: T;
   createdAt?: T;
 }
+/**
+ * This interface was referenced by `Config`'s JSON-Schema
+ * via the `definition` "with300documents_select".
+ */
+export interface With300DocumentsSelect<T extends boolean = true> {
+  text?: T;
+  selfRelation?: T;
+  updatedAt?: T;
+  createdAt?: T;
+}
 /**
  * This interface was referenced by `Config`'s JSON-Schema
  * via the `definition` "payload-locked-documents_select".