fix(db-mongodb): improve compatibility with Firestore database (#12763)

### What?

Adds four more arguments to the `mongooseAdapter`:

```typescript
  useJoinAggregations?: boolean  /* The big one */
  useAlternativeDropDatabase?: boolean
  useBigIntForNumberIDs?: boolean
  usePipelineInSortLookup?: boolean
```

Also export a new `compatabilityOptions` object from
`@payloadcms/db-mongodb` where each key is a mongo-compatible database
and the value is the recommended `mongooseAdapter` settings for
compatability.

### Why?

When using firestore and visiting
`/admin/collections/media/payload-folders`, we get:

```
MongoServerError: invalid field(s) in lookup: [let, pipeline], only lookup(from, localField, foreignField, as) is supported
```

Firestore doesn't support the full MongoDB aggregation API used by
Payload which gets used when building aggregations for populating join
fields.

There are several other compatability issues with Firestore:
- The invalid `pipeline` property is used in the `$lookup` aggregation
in `buildSortParams`
- Firestore only supports number IDs of type `Long`, but Mongoose
converts custom ID fields of type number to `Double`
- Firestore does not support the `dropDatabase` command
- Firestore does not support the `createIndex` command (not addressed in
this PR)

### How?

 ```typescript
useJoinAggregations?: boolean  /* The big one */
```
When this is `false` we skip the `buildJoinAggregation()` pipeline and resolve the join fields through multiple queries. This can potentially be used with AWS DocumentDB and Azure Cosmos DB to support join fields, but I have not tested with either of these databases.

 ```typescript
useAlternativeDropDatabase?: boolean
```
When `true`, monkey-patch (replace) the `dropDatabase` function so that
it calls `collection.deleteMany({})` on every collection instead of
sending a single `dropDatabase` command to the database

 ```typescript
useBigIntForNumberIDs?: boolean
```
When `true`, use `mongoose.Schema.Types.BigInt` for custom ID fields of type `number` which converts to a firestore `Long` behind the scenes

```typescript
  usePipelineInSortLookup?: boolean
```
When `false`, modify the sortAggregation pipeline in `buildSortParams()` so that we don't use the `pipeline` property in the `$lookup` aggregation. Results in slightly worse performance when sorting by relationship properties.

### Limitations

This PR does not add support for transactions or creating indexes in firestore.

### Fixes

Fixed a bug (and added a test) where you weren't able to sort by multiple properties on a relationship field.

### Future work

1. Firestore supports simple `$lookup` aggregations but other databases might not. Could add a `useSortAggregations` property which can be used to disable aggregations in sorting.

---------

Co-authored-by: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>
Co-authored-by: Sasha <64744993+r1tsuu@users.noreply.github.com>

package.json

@@ -112,6 +112,7 @@
     "test:e2e:prod:ci": "pnpm prepare-run-test-against-prod:ci && pnpm runts ./test/runE2E.ts --prod",
     "test:e2e:prod:ci:noturbo": "pnpm prepare-run-test-against-prod:ci && pnpm runts ./test/runE2E.ts --prod --no-turbo",
     "test:int": "cross-env NODE_OPTIONS=\"--no-deprecation --no-experimental-strip-types\" NODE_NO_WARNINGS=1 DISABLE_LOGGING=true jest --forceExit --detectOpenHandles --config=test/jest.config.js --runInBand",
+    "test:int:firestore": "cross-env NODE_OPTIONS=\"--no-deprecation --no-experimental-strip-types\" NODE_NO_WARNINGS=1 PAYLOAD_DATABASE=firestore DISABLE_LOGGING=true jest --forceExit --detectOpenHandles --config=test/jest.config.js --runInBand",
     "test:int:postgres": "cross-env NODE_OPTIONS=\"--no-deprecation --no-experimental-strip-types\" NODE_NO_WARNINGS=1 PAYLOAD_DATABASE=postgres DISABLE_LOGGING=true jest --forceExit --detectOpenHandles --config=test/jest.config.js --runInBand",
     "test:int:sqlite": "cross-env NODE_OPTIONS=\"--no-deprecation --no-experimental-strip-types\" NODE_NO_WARNINGS=1 PAYLOAD_DATABASE=sqlite DISABLE_LOGGING=true jest --forceExit --detectOpenHandles --config=test/jest.config.js --runInBand",
     "test:types": "tstyche",