Remove `stop_wait_time` and `readiness_timeout` from the root config
and remove `deploy_timeout` and `drain_timeout` from the proxy config.
Instead we'll just have `deploy_timeout` and `drain_timeout` in the
root config.
For roles that run the proxy, they are passed to the kamal-proxy deploy
command. Once that returns we can assume the container is ready to
shut down.
For other roles, we'll use the `deploy_timeout` when polling the
container to see if it is ready and the `drain_timeout` when stopping
the container.
The proxy can be enabled via the config:
```
proxy:
enabled: true
hosts:
- 10.0.0.1
- 10.0.0.2
```
This will enable the proxy and cause it to be run on the hosts listed
under `hosts`, after running `kamal proxy reboot`.
Enabling the proxy disables `kamal traefik` commands and replaces them
with `kamal proxy` ones. However only the marked hosts will run the
kamal-proxy container, the rest will run Traefik as before.
