Simplified deploy/drain timeouts

Remove `stop_wait_time` and `readiness_timeout` from the root config
and remove `deploy_timeout` and `drain_timeout` from the proxy config.

Instead we'll just have `deploy_timeout` and `drain_timeout` in the
root config.

For roles that run the proxy, they are passed to the kamal-proxy deploy
command. Once that returns we can assume the container is ready to
shut down.

For other roles, we'll use the `deploy_timeout` when polling the
container to see if it is ready and the `drain_timeout` when stopping
the container.

lib/kamal/configuration/role.rb

@@ -65,6 +65,12 @@ class Kamal::Configuration::Role
     @logging ||= config.logging.merge(specialized_logging)
   end
 
+  def stop_args
+    # When deploying with the proxy, kamal-proxy will drain request before returning so we don't need to wait.
+    timeout = running_proxy? ? nil : config.drain_timeout
+
+    [ *argumentize("-t", timeout) ]
+  end
 
   def env(host)
     @envs ||= {}