Connect to remote host before creating builder

Connecting to the remote host will make any SSH configuration issues
obvious and add the host to known hosts if that is how SSHKit is
configured.

test/fixtures/deploy_with_remote_builder.yml

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+service: app
+image: dhh/app
+servers:
+  web:
+    - "1.1.1.1"
+    - "1.1.1.2"
+  workers:
+    - "1.1.1.3"
+    - "1.1.1.4"
+registry:
+  username: user
+  password: pw
+
+accessories:
+  mysql:
+    image: mysql:5.7
+    host: 1.1.1.3
+    port: 3306
+    env:
+      clear:
+        MYSQL_ROOT_HOST: '%'
+      secret:
+        - MYSQL_ROOT_PASSWORD
+    files:
+      - test/fixtures/files/my.cnf:/etc/mysql/my.cnf
+    directories:
+      - data:/var/lib/mysql
+  redis:
+    image: redis:latest
+    roles:
+      - web
+    port: 6379
+    directories:
+      - data:/data
+
+readiness_delay: 0
+
+builder:
+  remote:
+    arch: amd64
+    host: ssh://app@1.1.1.5